Tired of spending all of your nights wishing that you had a girlfriend? If so, then you probably feel like it might never happen for you. Maybe you have tried taking advice on how to get a girlfriend before, only to find that the advice that was supposed to work just did not do the trick. It’s only natural to want to have a woman in your life, and the moment you realize that this is an area of your life that you want to take care of, now is as good of a time as any is. So, if you find yourself saying, «I want a girlfriend», keep reading.
One of the most common problems that men who want to get a girlfriend, is finding techniques that work quickly. You don’t want to have to wait months to finally get the girl, you want it to happen fast. Though some people say that you need to wait and eventually you will end up with the right woman, you really don’t have to wait around. There are some things that will help you to speed things up and get the kind of woman you would be glad to call your girlfriend.
Here are a few tips if you want to get a girlfriend and you want it to happen fast:
- First of all, you need to condition your mind to think positively about your chances with women.
While I really am not a big proponent of the whole «think positive» crowd, this is one area where you really do need to think positive. I’ve never met a guy who did really well with women who did not have a positive attitude about his chances. I mean, if you think negatively about whether or not you can get the girl, are you really ever going to even approach women with the intention of getting a date?
- Secondly, you need to realize that you probably are not going to want to make the first woman you meet your girlfriend.
Lots of relationship horror stories start out with a guy ending up with the first woman he meets and the first one that gives him any kind of positive attention. Be careful of that. I once knew a guy who hooked up with the first woman who gave him some positive attention and a few months later, he had bought her a brand new Jeep, spent tons of money on her for other things, and she was finding time to hook up with other guys behind his back. Don’t fall for the first girl you meet, no matter how badly you may want to get a girlfriend. Be a little bit choosy.
- Finally, you need to know how to react on your feet when you are flirting with a woman you want to date.
You cannot bring a text book along with you when you are meeting women, you have to be able to do things on the go. It’s not like you can pause for a moment and figure out what the right thing to say is, and then just happen to come off like a natural. You need to be able to react in the moment, so that everything just flows right. Luckily, there are a few tricks and techniques that can make this a lot easier for you to do.