It’s not an easy thing to do for a guy to try and gain a woman’s trust. There are so many obstacles and hurdles that you are going to have to overcome. The thing is, if you want to have a really healthy and potentially long lasting relationship with a woman… then you NEED to gain her trust. Okay, so you probably already knew that you need to gain her trust. Nothing new there, right? What you really need to know… is how to get her to feel that way. How do you gain a girl’s trust so that the whole trust thing is no longer an issue?
If you have ever had the experience of losing a woman’s trust in you, then you already know how much of a barrier that can be to having a healthy relationship. When a woman does not really feel like she can place her confidence in you, then you are really just treading water. Get caught in a lie or even worse a cheating situation… and you will see just how horrible it can be to have her feel like she cannot really believe in you.
Here’s some advice on how to gain the trust of a woman so that you hopefully never have to deal with that:
- Trust with a woman is something that really needs to be eased into.
The world as we know it and the world that we live in is pretty jaded to put it mildly. Any woman who has an prior relationship experience is probably going to have some of that cynicism that can be hard to get around. Meaning, right off the bat, you are probably going to have to work HARD on getting her to trust you. It would be nice if they did not get played and build up that barrier, but they do. This is something that you really need to be aware of first and foremost.
- It starts small and it builds up gradually.
Here is what a woman will typically do with a guy. She will give him little trust tests along the way in the beginning of the relationship. And these trust tests will slowly and gradually build up to where she begins to feel like she can trust you on some levels, and then she will explore deeper ones. Like, let’s say that she tells you a story about a friend and she tells it in confidence with you. She wants to see if you are going to be able to hold onto that ‘secret’ or will you go around and let the cat out of the bag? These little tests, however miniscule they might be, gradually lead up to her being able to trust you on the bigger relationship issues.
- Trust is a mutual thing, so if you want her to trust you… you have to trust HER.
Don’t think of it strictly as gaining her trust. While that may be what you want, you can be sure that she wants the same from you. Being able to allow yourself to confide little things with your girlfriend is a great way to get her to feel like she can do the same. Eventually it begins to snowball and she feels like she does not even have to question whether or not she can trust you, she just WILL.